Meet the Blussians

Happy Birthday, Bear!

This past Saturday marked Bear's 2nd birthday. We decided to do something small because he's just turning 2. Nothing against those who do big parties for their toddlers, but we'll probably start doing those once he's in preschool/child care so he has more friends of his age to play with. In surprising news, my racist-in-denial in-laws decided they actually want to be grandparents for a change. Yeah, you read that
Yoda

Mixed Kids Cope Different

(I'll get back to using song titles as my blog posts in a short while, but the last few posts were exceptions...) I'm Black. I have two Black parents. On my father's side, I had a great-grandmother who was half-White and half-Indian. I know this because I met her at the tender age of five and my first thought was, 'Who is this white lady?'. Over the years, I've had
Yoda

Could You Be Loved

[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL_BcaI0i0w&w=560&h=315] It's time for a Bo update! Weight: 17 1/2 lbs. Length/Height: 29 inches Diaper size and type: Size 3, Huggies Little Movers. We are experimenting with cloth but still on the fence. We've tried blueberry/swaddlebees, which we both love. Alvas are pretty nice. I really liked the Kawaii overnights. I do know I hate the pockets and prefer the AIOs. I would love to purchase just one BumGenius to try it.  Though we
Yoda

Highways of My Life

[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UirPQf9vyUI&w=420&h=315] So what are you? That was a question I often asked friends and fellow students who I couldn't figure out their racial identity. Racially-mixed children were rare back then. In a classroom full of kids who were Black, White, Latino, or Asian there was always one kid (and it was usually one kid) who was racially ambiguous. Not so much anymore. I've gone to college with people who biracial and not just
Preparing for Yoda

The Sweetest Love

http://youtu.be/nRuH-6L5RrA I'm typing this post as I deal with morning sickness. Yes, morning sickness. You see, I didn't know I could get morning sickness again in the third trimester. It makes sense once you think about it: as the baby grows, your stomach shrinks, making it impossible for you to have full meals anymore. It does make it possible, however, to get rid of the meals you did have like
Pregnancy, Preparing for Yoda

Could You Be Loved

http://youtu.be/_i-gcWdBUb8 I've been introducing Yoda to a lot of different genres. I've been on a Public Enemy and Wu-Tang Clan kick as of late, much to the chagrin to M. It's not like he doesn't like both groups, because he does. He just thinks I'm encouraging our son to Fight the Power and he's not outside the womb yet. I have been playing a lot of Michael Jackson and The