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This is What 14 Years of Marriage Looks Like!

Today is our 14th wedding anniversary. Crazy, huh? Our wedding was crazy simple - we went down to the Beverly Hills Courthouse with some friends. Other couples were there and I remember it was a rather overcast day, but it became sunnier as they day grew. Our name was called and we got married by a Justice of the Peace. And we were married in five minutes. Sometimes, I
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Our Cat, Sushi, Turned 13! Yippee!

This past week, our oldest girl, Sushi, turned 13. Can you believe it?! So crazy. I officially have a senior citizen in my home. It's been such a joy to have Sushi in our house. We call her Ms. Sassafras, Old Bat, Old Girl, and plenty of other nicknames depending on her mood (because you know, that's how cats are!). Still, if it wasn't for Sushi, we probably wouldn't
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How I Created Class Valentine’s Packs for Under $30

I know this is a late post, however, I'm a big believer that this is news you can use! Every year that Bear has been in school, be it preschool or elementary, I've made his Valentine's packets. The first year with him being in preschool was rather simple - a candy and maybe a small card attached. I found out as time progressed, there are parents who do the
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The Best Autobiographies by Women

Happy International Women's Day! To celebrate the best and most courageous women out there, I'm recommending these autobiographies. These are all books I have personally read, devoured, and went back for a second helping. All of these women have gone through it and have come out on the other side shining bright like a diamond. Are you ready? LFG! Becoming by Michelle Obama I think I re-read this book about
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Best Children’s Books (on Amazon!) by Black Authors

In honor of Black History Month, I'm proud to share with you some of the best children's books by Black authors you can purchase on Amazon. I love children's books from Black authors because I feel they're more catered to us and plus, I'm all about representation. It seems there are more books out than ever and I'm so jazzed about sharing them, along with some personal favorites! LFG! I
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Why You Need to Bookmark The Buy Guide

The Buy Guide. It doesn't have a wow ring to it. In fact, it sounds simple as all hell. The Buy Guide? What the hell is that? Is it like Black Friday (it could be). Well, let me school you. The Buy Guide is a comprehensive website that's kinda like Amazon, but maybe a little classier and more niche, IMO. But hey, I love a good deal, even if
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Kurt Cobain Spoke The Truth Then and Now

As we're slowly approaching the 30th anniversary of his untimely death, I want to share one of my all-time favorite Kurt Cobain quotes and why it's so personal to me: I've never been one of the cool kids. And honestly, I was never one of the 'down' Black kids. But I was always comfortable with being myself no matter what anyone thought about me. I still am. I'm a
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The Best Journal to Purchase at Amazon

I've gotten into journaling lately and it's been...a ride, not gonna lie. As I deal with my emotions in a healthy manner and not through a pint of Haagen-Dazs, I have to acknowledge something painful in addition to my response to it. Many natural responses are anger, shutting down, and well, eating a pint of Haagen-Dazs. Looking into getting the right type of journal was not an easy task.
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Good Grief is the Film You Need to Urgently Consume

Yeah, urgent. Let me preface this - while the main characters are gay, this is not a gay film. This is a film that anyone can relate to no matter if you're an ally or a member of the LGBTQ+. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR_MPXTaEZw Daniel Levy ("Schitt's Creek") wrote, directed, and starred in this film about a man who is trying to navigate life after suddenly losing his husband. As he tries to
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The Best Candles for Your Aesthetic!

I love candles. I try not to be a collector of any sorts as I do use the candles I own. But, I always feel you can never have enough candles. And sometimes, you'll be in a mood to burn a certain scent. I don't believe one candle fits all. You need at least three. Maybe four. So, with so many flippin' candles to choose from, it's hard to