Ethan

Why Picking Out Your Son's Grave Marker Really Sucks

Ethan died five years ago and this is something most people who follow me know. I haven't been shy in my grief, and I make it a point to let everyone know I had a son before Bear. What a lot of people don't know is that we haven't purchased a grave marker for Ethan. It's complicated. It really has nothing to do with money nor time. It's the finality of
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This is the Good Reason Why Our Christmas Tree is Still Up

Why yes, our Christmas tree is still up on January 4th. And it'll probably be up until January 31st. And so are our decorations! Our neighbors are used to it, though. In fact, I think they started recognizing Orthodox Christmas as well. Or maybe not. We celebrate Orthodox Christmas, which is typically a week after traditional Christmas. We don't give or receive gifts, nor do we still play Christmas music
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Resolutions, Schemzolutions

I'm not a real big believer in resolutions. In fact, I'm hard pressed to remember when was the last time I made any. It's not that I make them and forget about them around February (which seems to be the time most people do); it's just I'm a believer in if it wasn't my goal on December 31st, it's not going to be my goal on January 1st. What I
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DevaCurl No-Poo Product Review!

I recently tried the DevaCurl No-Poo cleansing conditioner on Bear. I tried it on my hair before (for a refresher, click here), so it was time to do it on Bear's hair. Pros: It cleans very well. DevaCurl is a strong brand. It has a lot of slip. It is heaven for those with Type 3 hair. Cons: It's super expensive! My little 3 oz bottle cost $10. If you have a sensitive nose, you probably won't
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Christmas Morning!

Privyet, family! I apologize it's been about a minute since I've blogged. The holidays snuck up on us and well, it's been a little crazy around here! Anyhoo, I wanted to do a special Christmas post for a while so shout-out to the hubby for shooting us first thing in the morning. I kinda wish I did my hair and at least put on some makeup but then that wouldn't be
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Bear the ShowStopper

Hello family! I apologize for the lack of posts. The beautiful thing about having a preschooler is when you send them to school well, it's almost a guarantee they'll come home sick and share the love. Yeah, we're all sick here but we're on the mend. The last few days weren't that great but I'm glad it wasn't anything more serious to warrant an ER trip. Being sick does come at a peculiar
Ethan

Ethan

The build-up to his birthday is always the hardest. This year has been incredibly difficult because having a preschooler is one more reminder of what could've been and what currently isn't. I know it may sound weird and I don't sound like I'm grateful for Bear, but I am. I thank God every day for Bear. But I also wish Bear had his big brother. The pain of losing a
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конфеты

This week on Meet the Blussians (yes, it's been a while since I've done a vlog), we're teaching you how to say candy. It's pronounced konfety (think of saying confetti). We also teach you how to say шоколад or chocolate. I hope you enjoy! [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsxLDy9XHDY&w=560&h=315]
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Product Review Week – Natural Hair Care Edition

Hello! And I'm back with another review of some of the hair care products I've tried over the year. Since I have a few, I'm going to make this as condense as possible. This time I'm reviewing creams, custards, and leave-ins. Let's get started! Aunt Jackie's Quench! At first, I wasn't a fan of this product. It smelled pretty sweet and I wasn't a fan of the consistency on my hair (putting
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Product Review Week – Online Black-Owned Businesses

This year, I've shopped from a few of Black-owned businesses online. There are actually a ton of businesses and this link is a good resource to check them out. Just click on their name to check out their website/store. Let's get into the ones I've purchased from: Blk Proverbs: I follow her on Tumblr and she's a riot! I love her store as well. And I'm so grateful for my mug! KaAn's Designs: I really