[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kj9SeMZE_Yw&w=560&h=315] M. and I are a rare couple. He's Ukrainian, I'm Black American. There are a lot of differences between us. There is a lot of common ground between us. Obviously, it works since we've been together for seven years, five married. We survived two notable miscarriages in one year, a stressful but very uneventful pregnancy with Bear, and trying to conceive our second rainbow baby. We mesh. We also