Meet the Blussians, Mommy Commentary

Why I Decided To Risk It All and Treat Myself

Okay, that title is being hella dramatic but bear with me here. I get iffy about Mother's Day. I still have a mother here and I'm one myself. But I always feel there's someone missing. For those new to my blog, I lost our first son, Ethan, several years ago due to incompetent cervix and subsequent premature birth. He lived for two hours. Ever since his untimely passing, I feel a
Meet the Blussians

#TBT – Me and Bear

It's been a while since we've done a Throwback Thursday here so here's a cute then and now photo of us: Three years ago, in our kitchen. It was rather hot so we both were in our underwear. This is one of my favorite pictures because it reminds me of how naturally happy Bear is. Yesterday, in our parking garage. Same happy Bear with happy Mommy. Good times.
Meet the Blussians, Yoda

Happy #blackoutday!

#Blackout is celebrating all shades of Black. More information is located here because I don't think I could explain it enough and do it justice. [gallery ids="2497,2500,2499,2498" type="rectangular"]  
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#TBT – Goofin’ Off

I actually remember this day. Not sure why I was wearing a wig because apparently it was hot enough for Bear to be shirtless. Maybe I was just too lazy to mess with my hair (it happens.) We had fun, tho... You know, people used to tell me how fast it all goes. You're snuggling them one day and you're sending them off to school the next. I never knew exactly
Meet the Blussians, Yoda

You Haven’t Done Nothing

[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uQCJ6PzRdA&w=420&h=315] I really don't like giving unsolicited parenting advice to other parents. It's pretty simple: 1) It's not my kid, and 2) it's not my kid. See? Pretty simple. While I may not agree with some parenting choices and I may have to silently question the type of parents they are, I also have to check myself. These are people who's doing the best they can or they have