[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Koz393gAwjQ&w=560&h=315] First grandchild. Seventh grandchild. First son. That is what I keep hearing since Bo's birth. Now, I do refer to Bo as my first son just because I don't want to keep explaining Ethan, especially to strangers. Unless you're a bereaved parent, you won't be able to understand the feelings of sympathy pity you get. They mouth a silent, 'I'm so sorry' and then you get "the treatment." The handling of your poor