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Maybe You Can Be A Little Bit of an Asshole

  Recently, one of my old friends made a dedication to her friends - Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Yes, you can say I know Kim K. by the third degree. Anyhoo, we all know the mess Kim has been in and the recent breakdown Kanye had. So, I shared her thoughts with some friends (which was a mistake on my part and something I probably won't ever do again) and
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The Spaghetti Recipe You Must Try!

It's been a while since I've posted a recipe that I absolutely lurve on here. I don't have a lot of time to chit-chat about this so let's jump right into it! The recipe is located here. Personally, I thought this was amazeballs. It was a little sweet for me (I can easily taste sugar) but overall, it was great! It's also toddler-approved! Bear had three helpings! Up close and personal: This sauce
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Back from the Brink!

I didn't quite leave but with the holidays approaching, I decided now would be a good time to take a break before it really gets crunk in here. I hope all of you are doing wonderful and great! We hosted Thanksgiving at our home and invited my in-laws (including the mother-in-law I don't like) and family friends. It was the time to set aside differences and just enjoy company and
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#TBT – Bear and Daddy

All this month, I'm posting Throwback Thursdays and Flashback Fridays in honor of my men, who share a birthday month! This is one of my all-time favorite pics of them. Maks is very hands-on with Bear. I turn the camera on you, Mommy! Snuggle Bears. <3  
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Bear Turns 3!

It's been an incredible three years. It's been a challenging three years. But I'm blessed everyday. When he was born, it felt like I won the lottery and I still feel the same. Without further ado, I present Bear's greatest hits over the past three years. Enjoy!   [gallery ids="5852,5853,5854,5855,5856,5857,5858,5859,5860,5861,5862,5863,5864,5865,5866,5867,5868,5869" type="slideshow"]
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Late FBF – Bear and Daddy

Throughout this month, I'll be posting throwbacks of Bear and Maks since this is their birthday month! Even Superman needs to hold hands. After his very first beach trip this year. On our way out! Helping Daddy with photos. Taken just last week by photographer David King.
Mommy Commentary

AmeriKKKa's Most Wanted

[caption id="attachment_5875" align="alignnone" width="693"] It's photoshopped but how much I wish it were real.[/caption] [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yrwmAcrJr2U&w=560&h=315] Honestly, I have so much to say. As a Black woman married to a first-generation immigrant, who we both have gay friends, Bear's godmothers are Latina, and many people under this beautiful rainbow of life...last night's results are scary. I speak about race on here not to jam it down your throat but to show you how
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Day Out with Thomas!!

[gallery ids="5788,5789" type="rectangular"] Over the weekend, we surprised Bear with an early birthday gift by treating him to see his favorite homie, Thomas, and his second-favorite, Percy. (He loves Gordon, too, but he wasn't there.) First things first, I have to show off the custom-made Thomas shirt I ordered from Etsy: Cool, huh? To purchase your own, click here. Here are other pictures from the weekend, taking by my bae: [gallery ids="5782,5779,5781" type="rectangular"] And of
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So You Want More Bounce In Your Curls?

A question I get a lot (and from adults, surprisingly!) is how I manage Bear's curls. I would love to say it's just a magical thing and he naturally wakes up like that every morning, but no. I have to work at it. Here is what I use and the various tips that could help you. I've also included my Bear's curly hair playlist for you to check out! Know thy
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#TBT- Baes edition

This November kicks off the birthday celebration of my baes (yes, I use that word and I love it so you will have to deal). Their birthdays are a week a part!  Each Thursday, I'll dedicate a post just for them. So, let's get to it! 2016 Edition: My Buddy and Me. [caption id="attachment_5701" align="aligncenter" width="640"] Photo by @heyroldy, Harold Gonzales.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_5704" align="aligncenter" width="1242"] Self-photo by @caliwinter, Maks.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_5702" align="aligncenter" width="640"] I'm